apathy: church culture?

it is a funny thing to have been working in the church for 8 years and beyond that, growing up in the north american church culture. i have come to this idea lately that the church is obsolete because north americans today don't give a crap about some "organized religion." but this easter we did something that if never done in church, is rarely done in church, and that is a tattoo. it was awesome! it was extremely exciting, and we received a ton of local media attention! the service itself went off great and commitments were made as a result. now, only three days later i sit in my "office" pondering the reason i think little will change even though we had what i consider one of the most culturally relevant easter services ever. it is not the world, but the church itself. my church? possibly, though i have more faith in my team than that. but i mean the church universal that created this cultural tendency to see church as a place where we get stuff and where we see God as this cosmic vending machine or a genie who does whatever we want. sadly, i think we, the church, are apathetic in our views of God, hell, the lost and the church. we don't care enough about God to believe what his Word says or obey him. we don't care enough about hell to fear it or keep others from going there. we don't care enough about the lost to pray for them and seek them out. in fact, the way most christians act, we might as well tell them all to go to hell. and we don't care enough about the church to realize that it is the community of believers, the called out ones, the bride of Christ. we just don't care. i blame the consumer mentality that we have created inside the church. Christ said that unless we hate our families and our lives, we cannot be his disciples. that sounds like the exact opposite of what we, the apathetic church of america, have created. so, how do we change this paradigm of laziness? good question.